Day-2 Mumbai- 25/09/2012
" Women are the Weaker Sex"... this sentence has been heard, time and again, in various sections of our society, by a whole lot of people... But do they really understand the dynamics of being a women??
If a girl is seen in public, Holding hands with a guy.. she is being look down upon, being tagged as cunning, slut , chalu, and many other derogatory terms. If the same goes for a guy... he is cool .. he is smart.. he is one of a kind.. and are cheered even by his own folks..!! This is one of the many differences that we girls face in this male chauvinistic society which is supposedly still ruled by men, and they still treat their ladies as their maiden servants!! i don't want to tag every guy being that, but most are. Its basically starts up right from our homes, when a girl is told to come home early and questioned about every outing she does. whereas his brother isn't ever question about anything..!! why? because hes a male?? he isn't vulnerable to the preying eyes of the roadside romioes?? or the plain explanation that the best consents of a girls life still resides with its family, father or husband!! I don't say all have bad intentions for their peers, but they don't even have the best one's.
Let me get this straight, although we live in the 21st century, reached moon and mars, yet we expect our girls only aim is to settle and get married...!! our parents just ingrain it within us, right from the time we are born, that you are supposed to get married.. that's where our responsibility ends.. if a Mother Teresa had thought that i want to get married and settle, she wouldn't have had achieved the things that she had, and earned so much recognition throughout her lifetime..!! If an Indira Gandhi just held on to her family values, she wouldn't have had being one of the most revolutionary leaders of all times..!! just making a jist of all this, i would say that start encouraging your girls to move out of homes and create a world for themselves, become a name for their family, know and believe that you will do well, educate them.. love them.. keep them at par with your other male members.. and always let them cherish their dreams..!!
CHEERS
" Women are the Weaker Sex"... this sentence has been heard, time and again, in various sections of our society, by a whole lot of people... But do they really understand the dynamics of being a women??
If a girl is seen in public, Holding hands with a guy.. she is being look down upon, being tagged as cunning, slut , chalu, and many other derogatory terms. If the same goes for a guy... he is cool .. he is smart.. he is one of a kind.. and are cheered even by his own folks..!! This is one of the many differences that we girls face in this male chauvinistic society which is supposedly still ruled by men, and they still treat their ladies as their maiden servants!! i don't want to tag every guy being that, but most are. Its basically starts up right from our homes, when a girl is told to come home early and questioned about every outing she does. whereas his brother isn't ever question about anything..!! why? because hes a male?? he isn't vulnerable to the preying eyes of the roadside romioes?? or the plain explanation that the best consents of a girls life still resides with its family, father or husband!! I don't say all have bad intentions for their peers, but they don't even have the best one's.
Let me get this straight, although we live in the 21st century, reached moon and mars, yet we expect our girls only aim is to settle and get married...!! our parents just ingrain it within us, right from the time we are born, that you are supposed to get married.. that's where our responsibility ends.. if a Mother Teresa had thought that i want to get married and settle, she wouldn't have had achieved the things that she had, and earned so much recognition throughout her lifetime..!! If an Indira Gandhi just held on to her family values, she wouldn't have had being one of the most revolutionary leaders of all times..!! just making a jist of all this, i would say that start encouraging your girls to move out of homes and create a world for themselves, become a name for their family, know and believe that you will do well, educate them.. love them.. keep them at par with your other male members.. and always let them cherish their dreams..!!
CHEERS
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