Wednesday, 26 September 2012

The Social Network

Day 3 Mumbai 26/09/2012

Hey Bloggies,
                     The other day i was watching the Oscar Nominated David Fincher film, 'The Social Network', For an umpteenth time. I can never get Enough From watching that Film. I can relate as well as understand the dynamics of this new world of online social media!!  Mark Zuckerberg was a Genius to sort his energies of a failed relationship and a breakup, into something so extra-ordinary as 'Facebook. If each of of us could do this, i imagine how this world would have been??
                                                                         This world today is shrinking at a pace of a tornado, everything we have, we want, or we wish to have is on the web.Its a crazy world out there. No more can we sing those songs of , 'saath samundar paar' or crossing seven seas, when we can stay connected with anyone through this network of social media. I have been told to write a number of Articles relating to how social media has transformed our lives, or how it is bad for us, or how it is bad for real journalism!! and i have always said this time and again, that its a revolution, for Mankind, in every way, how can we imagine our lives, if we don't log on 'Facebook"..every day at least once? How are we supposed to know the breaking news stuff , if it doesn't float around the web?? Its a impossible Nightmare.. which we all will have to attend rehabs to overcome..!! Still Remember the day my mother started sitting on Facebook, that was the day i realized , that its all over... and Face palmed myself. Our generation still has a long way to go when it comes to getting completely Tec savvy, which we have become, yet we belong to the 90's when, entertainment was still  going in the playgrounds and sweating it out..!!! watching tv meant only Cartoon Network, our only source of entertainment.. and computers meant only to be learnt in that one hour a week basis in school hours.
         Until it was all gone and our bedrooms, living rooms and now even travelling time were attacked with gadgets, computers laptop and now 'Smart Phones'.... phew! Its a sad state of affairs, when people prefer to hang out on Group chats on their respective messengers , than meeting out their in person. Relationships have become messages, phone calls and Skype, than going out their, holding hands in person and chatting away all the time. They say times have changed, every generation finds the coming ones to be lame, out-Landish and Hard to cope up with. AS they say, time doesn't stop for anybody, and so doesn't the Social network. I still remember those days when girls used to gossip amongst themselves in the college canteen about everything. Now they gossip about the pictures and the parties and the relationship status of their peers on Facebook. yet one has to accept these facts , and just move forward with time, that time is no far, when we would stop talking verbally sitting in the same homes and prefer texting one another, which has already begun..!!
                                         This Social Network is a revolutionary change for the mankind, and so it needs to be utilized in a better way then just plain hooking up and breaking up shit..!! Well altough i am nagging about the web and yet using it to write this stuff..blah.. how ironic... signing off..
all the love
R.S






















the Response so far..

Day 3 Mumbai- 26/09/2012

Hello my Bloggers,
                           SO Far so good, the response to the Blog has been quite incredible.. quite literally.. the praise as well as the critics.. i started up this Blog to enhance my writing in more ways than i can..!! i belong to this field and so i have to as a compulsion showcase my skill..!! whatever i write here are my personal views.. and if any body has a problem with that.. so well dude this is a free World.. deal with it..!! :D keep posted and create some more Love and traffic out here.... some real interesting stuff coming up..!! till then spread the love ...<3<3<3
Cheers

Tuesday, 25 September 2012

Are Girls Judged More than Guys in our society??

Day-2  Mumbai- 25/09/2012


" Women are the Weaker Sex"... this sentence has been heard, time and again, in various sections of our society, by a whole lot of people... But do they really understand the dynamics of being a women??
                                                             If a girl is seen in public, Holding hands with a guy.. she is being look down upon, being tagged as cunning, slut , chalu, and many other derogatory terms. If the same goes for a guy... he is cool .. he is smart.. he is one of a kind.. and are cheered even by his own folks..!! This is one of the many differences that we girls face in this male chauvinistic society which is supposedly still ruled by men, and they still treat their ladies as their maiden servants!! i don't want to tag every guy being that, but most are. Its basically starts up right from our homes, when a girl is told to come home early and questioned about every outing she does. whereas his brother isn't ever question about anything..!! why? because hes a male?? he isn't vulnerable to the preying eyes of the roadside romioes?? or the plain explanation that the best consents of a girls life still resides with its family, father or husband!! I don't say all have bad intentions for their peers, but they don't even have the best one's.

Let me get this straight, although we live in the 21st century, reached moon and mars, yet we expect our girls only aim is to settle and get married...!! our parents just ingrain it within us, right from the time we are born, that you are supposed to get married.. that's where our responsibility ends.. if a Mother Teresa had thought that i want to get married and settle, she wouldn't have had achieved the things that she had, and earned so much recognition throughout her lifetime..!! If an Indira Gandhi just held on to her family values, she wouldn't have had being one of the most revolutionary leaders of all times..!! just making a jist of all this, i would say that start encouraging your girls to move out of homes and create a world for themselves, become a name for their family, know and believe that you will do well, educate them.. love them.. keep them at par with your other male members.. and always let them cherish their dreams..!!
CHEERS

Monday, 24 September 2012

THIS IRONY CALLED LIFE

HEY GUYS, 
this is Richa here... very new to the world of blogging, always Heard and REad blogs of Famous and Interesting people but never did the same for myself...i hope i can keep you all interested with some interesting facts....write ups...columns and much more...hope you keep posted and share your feedback..Good or bad with me...
keep reading.. intersting stuff coming up..
Cheers :)